Protect Your Pre-Teen From Online Predators—Without Fear, Fights, or 24/7 Surveillance

How To Spot Hidden Grooming Tactics And Teach Your Pre-Teen To Stay Safe Online In Just 7 Days

(even if they roll their eyes at your rules, find ways around parental controls, or already have a phone)

The Proven Parent-to-Child Safety System That's Turning "I Had No Idea" Into "Now They Know What To Watch For" In Just One Week

"She said she understood. But she was messaging a stranger..and I only found out because she got caught."

As a self-defense coach with over 23 years of experience and more than 1,000 teens trained, I've seen this story play out more times than I can count.

One mom I worked with gave her 11-year-old daughter a phone for emergencies. All her friends already had one. She had the rules set. Or so she thought.

Fast forward a year later: TikTok videos. Public group chats. Messaging people she didn’t even know. Smiling at her screen and hiding the details from her mom.

Her stomach dropped. She told me she felt like the worst parent in the world. "How did I miss this?" she asked.

Now her daily struggle with online safety includes:

Wondering what her daughter is hiding when she hears the phone buzz

Feeling unsure how to talk about danger without making her afraid

Walking the tightrope between trust and control

Worrying she’ll overreact and make her daughter sneakier

Not knowing what apps and sites are even risky

She tried everything experts suggested:

Parental controls (her daughter found workarounds)

Taking the phone away (but she needed it for school & activities)

Talking calmly and setting rules (but boundaries kept getting pushed)

Using "kid-safe" phones (but kids still find ways to get online)

Hoping she'd just "know better" (spoiler: she didn’t)

She told me, "I feel defeated. How do I actually teach her what's dangerous, in a way she'll understand and remember?"

Then I Showed Her Something That Changed Everything...

I’ve spent years digging into this topic; through real conversations with teens, survivor stories, and extensive study of how modern online predators operate.

What I learned shocked me:

According to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, online enticement has increased 97% in the last 5 years.

Predators don’t just lurk in sketchy places—they're on apps like Instagram, Roblox, and Reddit.

Kids are targeted because they’re lonely, curious, or seeking validation—not because they’re "naive"

"Grooming" doesn’t always look creepy—it often looks like friendship

Most kids don’t tell their parents because they don’t realize anything is wrong

But most alarming of all:

Most well-meaning parents are unknowingly teaching their kids the wrong things about online safety—if they’re even talking about it at all.

I know because I’ve worked with hundreds of parents making the same mistakes.

Through extensive research and collaboration with:

Child safety advocates

Digital parenting experts

Real-world survivors of online grooming

I discovered WHY traditional approaches fail - and more importantly, what actually works.

I call it the "Who’s Your Pre-Teen Talking To?" Online Safety Guide

By using open-but-clear conversations, scenario-based teaching, and proven behavior cues, this system helps parents:

Equip their kids to spot predator tactics in real-time

Open up communication without prying or spying

Create real boundaries kids actually respect

Stop reacting from fear and start parenting from confidence

Finally feel like they’re doing enough to protect their kids

After helping hundreds of families implement this approach, I’ve refined it into a plug-and-play method that any parent can use...

...even if nothing else has worked before.

THE 4 SKILLS THAT SEPARATE PRE-TEENS WHO STAY SAFE FROM THOSE WHO DON’T

The 4 Essential Skills Pre-Teens Need (That Phones & Schools Don't Teach)

Discernment:

Learning what’s a real friend vs a dangerous connection (and how predators pretend to be helpful or harmless)

Boundary-Setting: Knowing what to say, when to leave a convo, and how to ask for help (without fear of being in trouble)

Language Fluency: Understanding modern slang, emojis, and social cues (because grooming is disguised in their language)

Confidence:

Building internal instincts to question things, spot red flags, and speak up (instead of staying silent or confused)

INSTANT ACCESS - START TEACHING SAFETY TODAY

Here's Everything You Get With The "Who’s Your Pre-Teen Talking To?" Safety Guide Today!

What's included:

The Complete Online Safety Guide: 55 pages of research-backed tools, real scripts, and prevention-based training that make conversations easier, safer, and more effective.

🎁 Plus These 5 Micro Solution Bonuses 🎁

"But Everyone Has It" - How to Say No to Unsafe Apps Without Becoming the "Mean Parent"

Did They Just Say That?" - A Parent's Decoder Guide to Pre-Teen Slang, Emoji's, and Secret Chat Codes

“The Just-In-Case Agreement” - A Pre-Made Phone Contract That Actually Works

"Groomer Red Flag Checklist" - A Quick-Glance PDF to Print, Teach, or Keep Handy

"What to Say (When You Don't Know What to Say)" - Pre-Written Scripts for Tough Topics

Normally: $67

Today: $27

BEFORE AND AFTER

The Transformation You Can Expect

Don't let hidden online danger keep dominating your household. Your parenting can feel grounded, informed, and effective.

Before The

Guide:

  • Constant anxiety about what they’re doing online

  • Feeling powerless and reactive

  • Unclear boundaries and rules they ignore

  • Fights over apps and screen time

  • Worrying you’re doing too little—or too much

  • Not knowing how to explain the dangers they face

After The Guide:

  • Real conversations about online safety that they understand

  • Boundaries you both agree on and respect

  • Your child confidently avoiding danger and red flags

  • Tools that help you stay in-the-know without spying

  • A stronger connection built on trust and clarity

  • Peace of mind knowing you have a plan

YOUR SAFETY RESET STARTS HERE

The 5 Core Sections That Transform Your Family’s Online Safety:

Each one precisely designed to build skills, spark conversations, and put you back in charge.

Understanding Modern Predators: (Day 1)

Get the facts without the fear—this insight-based module shows you exactly how predators operate today.

Learn the 5 grooming tactics used most often on pre-teens

See real-world examples that feel familiar to your child’s experience

Understand why "good kids" are still at risk

Spotting Red Flags: (Day 2)

Help your child recognize danger before it escalates—even when it doesn’t seem obvious.

Discover the 7 signs a conversation is going sideways

Teach them what to do if something feels "off"

Know what platforms are most commonly exploited

Building Safe Conversations: (Day 3)

Scripts + language that actually work (without fear tactics).

Use non-cringe ways to ask who they’re talking to

Teach open-ended responses that create clarity

Learn what not to say so they don't shut down

Real Boundaries That Stick: (Day 4)

Create household agreements that feel fair but firm.

Phone use templates for school, sleep, and social time

Boundaries for group chats, public posts, and more

Consequences that reinforce—not punish

Prevention Plans That Grow With Them: (Day 5)

Set them up for independence and long-term safety.

Teach self-check questions to ask before engaging online

Build their critical thinking muscle for online spaces

Lay the foundation for safe teen years and beyond

Get The Guide. Start the Conversation. Protect Your Pre-Teen.

Get The Online Safety Guide Now

While other parents are guessing, fearing, or reacting...
you’ll be teaching, equipping, and protecting with confidence.

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